Ever notice how easy it is to blame other people and situations when your life isn’t going the way you want? Psychologists call this having an “external locus of control” which means you don’t believe you’re in charge of your own life or destiny and that other factors “control” you instead.
As a child, watching the 1950’s show, “The Little Rascals”, there was an episode where Spanky and Alfalfa joined together after being rejected by Darla (whom I had a TV crush on). They formed an alliance where little boys hated little girls and would not allow them into the club. They would also constantly complain about how they were wronged and were delighted that there were others who felt their pain. In the end, though, they would always realize they loved the little girls and would eventually dissolve the group.
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